When you got married, years ago, it was a small…
So you want to do it all over again.
Here is the complete guide to planning your wedding vow renewal
The vows:
This is really the essence of the ceremony. When it comes to the vows you can use the same ones you made when you got married or you can write new ones. If you choose to write new vows, take time to think through what you want to say. Think through the years you have been together and the defining moments you have had. Where you have been and the future you look forward to.
Make every word heartfelt.
The venue:
If you originally went to the Attorney General’s office to formalize your marriage then you might be keen on having a big event. And if you had a big wedding when they got married, you might be keen on an intimate vow renewal ceremony. Perhaps even a destination wedding. The venue you choose could be a beach, a hotel, a wedding venue or even your own house.
The guests:
Unlike a wedding, where most of your friends and relatives are expecting an invite, with a vow renewal not many people (other than your nearest and dearest) would take offence at being left out of the party. So you can feel free to have as large or as small a gathering as you wish.
The rings:
Have your wedding rings engraved with romantic messages to mark the beginning of this new season of your marriage. Or you could get new rings and exchange them as you make your vows.
The officiant:
A vow renewal is not legal ceremony so it can be officiated by pretty much anyone. A great idea would be to have someone who understands your journey as a couple officiate your vow renewal; like your pastor.
The invitations:
It would be absurd to include the names of the parents in the invitations like you do for a wedding so for this occasion you can have it read that you as a couple are inviting the guests. Feel free to include favourite verses or phrases.
The second honeymoon:
While you are still glowing in the aftermath of reaffirming your vows, why don’t you go on a romantic getaway. Sort of like a second honeymoon. Spend some quality time together celebrating your reignited love.